For most of my life, I carried the quiet weight that so many women do, the pressure to get everything right, to serve well, to not disappoint anyone, and to somehow transform myself by sheer willpower. I loved God but I often lived in a schedule of doing it myself, striving, performance, and self-critique. In the deepest places of my heart, I always knew there had to be more but I also loved to ignore that whisper.

Until he put me in the most challenging 7 years of my life. And still God kept whispering,

That whisper slowly became a path, one that led me through Human Design, healing, identity work, finding a new church and eventually to one of the most unexpected yet life changing tools: the Brilliant app and the teachings of Graham Cooke.

What I found inside that app was not just encouragement. It was a whole new way of being with God. Graham’s language of grace, the nature of God, and the unforced rhythms of joy felt like someone turned on a light inside my spirit. Instead of trying to fix myself or feeling guilty and ashamed before God I learned how to walk with God as someone already loved, already chosen, already being developed with kindness and patience.

And then something beautiful happened: Everything I had learned and teach through Human Design, the uniqueness of how God wired me, suddenly came alive in a deeper, Kingdom centered way. My design stopped being a map of how to function and became a map of how God communicates with me personally.

My Emotional waves became places of encounter. My openness became places of intimacy. My consistency became places of confidence. My gates became pieces of His character woven into my identity.

For the first time, transformation felt like partnership not pressure. It was like God was saying: I made you on purpose. Let Me teach you how to live from the design I created, not the expectations the world put on you.

This revelation reshaped everything: My coaching. My body transformation work. My well-being journey. My identity I had to rediscover. And most of all my faith.

All my life I experienced highly sensitive women, empaths, and women called to serve deeply often carry silent battles: Feeling too much. Feeling responsible for everyone. Feeling guilty for resting. Feeling unsafe to receive. Feeling like transformation is supposed to hurt.

But in the Brilliant mindset of grace and the blueprint of Faith-Based Human Design these same women discover the truth: You were never meant to transform alone. You were meant to transform in partnership with God through the design He handcrafted for you.

Today, I walk in a version of myself I didn’t know was possible before Brilliant.

I feel connected to God in a deeper, more personal way. I feel grounded in who He designed me to be. I feel aligned with my purpose without self judgment or pressure. I trust my sensitivity as a strength, not a flaw. And I teach women how to experience the same freedom.

When people ask what Brilliant did for me, I say this: It brought me back to God’s true nature and in doing so, it brought me back to my own.

If you’re a woman who has spent years trying to fix yourself, trying to earn God’s approval, trying to push through your emotions, trying to be everything for everyone…

There is a better way.

A gentler way. A joyful way. A brilliant way.

And you don’t have to walk it alone. Welcome to the journey. You’re right on time.